Comments on: Coping with miscarriage II http://vbacfacts.com/2009/01/16/coping-with-miscarriage-ii/ Vaginal birth after cesarean? Don't freak, know the facts. Tue, 07 Feb 2012 04:51:05 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: jay http://vbacfacts.com/2009/01/16/coping-with-miscarriage-ii/comment-page-1/#comment-3031 jay Mon, 17 Aug 2009 18:29:31 +0000 http://vbacfacts.com/2009/01/17/coping-with-miscarriage-ii/#comment-3031 Ironically me and my girlfriend had two miscarriages back to back. I'm hurting ans she continues to push me away from her and consistently hints at ending the relationship. She told me recently she hated me and insist that she wasted a year and 2months for nothing. Talking about it is irrelevant because she one-sided and is only concerned about her pain and her and not mine. I've put my feelings to the back burner to always be there for her however I do not feel that it's worth it at this point to continue our relationship with her. I will mourn my own way and support her from a distant. You can comfort someone who doesn't want you around or even near her...God bless all the women out there who allows their man to share the pain with them... Ironically me and my girlfriend had two miscarriages back to back. I’m hurting ans she continues to push me away from her and consistently hints at ending the relationship. She told me recently she hated me and insist that she wasted a year and 2months for nothing. Talking about it is irrelevant because she one-sided and is only concerned about her pain and her and not mine. I’ve put my feelings to the back burner to always be there for her however I do not feel that it’s worth it at this point to continue our relationship with her. I will mourn my own way and support her from a distant. You can comfort someone who doesn’t want you around or even near her…God bless all the women out there who allows their man to share the pain with them…

]]> By: Laureen http://vbacfacts.com/2009/01/16/coping-with-miscarriage-ii/comment-page-1/#comment-757 Laureen Sat, 17 Jan 2009 16:31:51 +0000 http://vbacfacts.com/2009/01/17/coping-with-miscarriage-ii/#comment-757 Hey Candace... You never get over it. You may move past it, but you never get over it. I have three living children, and had a miscarriage in between each of them. And I still think of both of those as children, and I still think about their expected birthdays. My husband would tell you that they were hard on him. Men just don't handle them like we do. After I had my first miscarriage, I thought I was broken. But discovered, as Jen mentioned, that most women have had them. You are so not alone. I know it's hard. I'm thinking good thoughts for you. Hey Candace…

You never get over it. You may move past it, but you never get over it. I have three living children, and had a miscarriage in between each of them. And I still think of both of those as children, and I still think about their expected birthdays.

My husband would tell you that they were hard on him. Men just don’t handle them like we do.

After I had my first miscarriage, I thought I was broken. But discovered, as Jen mentioned, that most women have had them. You are so not alone.

I know it’s hard. I’m thinking good thoughts for you.

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